Wednesday, 17 February 2016
10 things guys want from an awesome girlfriend
1. She Makes You Want to Be a Better Man
Stop making that face relationship man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She does not have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister when you were younger or find yourself trying to get your finances in order to prepare for the future, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be love.
2. She Loves You
If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her. Of course, everyone has their slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she really loves you, she will be able to cope with these.
Other ways to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks at you and treats you on an everyday basis. If the sight of you does not seem to faze her either way, and she does not really seem to care about what you have to say, she is either playing very hard to get, or she sees you as just some guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up, there is no denying that she loves you.
3. She Gets Along With Your Friends and Family
An awesome girlfriend will make an effort to get to know your people. She will help your parents out at Thanksgiving, try to understand your brother's twisted sense of humor, and want to get to know your friends. She will actually empathize with your sister's getting dumped and suggest that you guys take her out to cheer her up. Not only that, but your friends will not roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she will be joining you guys when she gets off work ..she is one of the crowd.
4. She Does not Nag Without a Good Reason
We have never met a man who was convinced to change his behavior because of his girlfriend's nagging. A great girlfriend knows this and chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to get upset and when to let it slide.
Morever, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her, and she lets you have it, then you are setting yourself up for disaster. This is a situation that nobody would let slide — not even a great girlfriend. Do not push your luck with anyone, least of all your girlfriend.
5. She Lets You Be a Man
Do not I repeat do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up poker night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. A good girlfriend lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all. If she is a great girlfriend, she will even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.
She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to be yourself. Just like you would not deprive her of going shopping with her best girlfriend, she should not expect you to give up the guys for her.
6. She Respects You
This is true. Your girlfriend must respect you otherwise you have to wonder why she bothers to be with you. This means that she takes the time to listen to you, even if you are in a heated argument
An awesome girlfriend will keep major disputes private rather than taking you down in public. She will make an effort to see things from your point of view (provided you do the same for her). The key here is that the respect be mutual it is very hard for one of you to respect the other while feeling disrespected. The golden rule has no better application than in terms of respecting your significant other.
7. You are Attracted to Her
I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself.
Being seen with her should make you feel better about yourself. And this does not mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Whatever floats your boat. Your mutual attraction should make you both want to stay looking your best.
8. She is Sexual
Of course, this does not imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that the two of you have an undeniable attraction toward each other and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues). It is important that you please each other whatever the case may be.
9. She is Intelligent
Am not the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. A woman who can met you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on.
A brilliant woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She will not let you get bored or complacent. Besides, it is nice to have something to talk about between all that headboard-rattling sex.
10. She is Independent
No one gets into a relationship to be a babysitter. If she has had a rough day at work, it is great to be her shoulder to cry on. But if she cannot seem to function without you, you will eventually suffocate, and if you are smart you will run for the nearest exit.
Indepedence is key to a happy relationship, for both the man and the woman. You will find you are still getting to know her long after you have gotten serious if she has a host of interests and commitments outside of your relationship